ABBY DEAR: Tekau ma rima tau ki muri ka "rere" ahau i aku tamariki pakeke, ka mutu ka whiwhi moni ahau.I taea e ratou te noho ki roto i te whare na te mea i utu tonu ahau i taku mokete.Ko to ratou papa - taku o mua - i noho ki te taha o te whanau.
Inaianei karekau tetahi o aku tamariki e pirangi ki te whai mahi ki ahau, ki taku whanau ranei, kare hoki ratou e pirangi ki te whai mahi ki ahau.Ki taku whakaaro kua whakarerea ratou na te mea ko au te matua ka taea e ratou te whakawhirinaki tonu.He mea ka taea e au ki te whakaora i to maatau hononga?— Pennsylvania Runaway Mama
Mama: Ae, korero atu ki o tamariki kei te hoko koe i te whare, ki taku whakaaro nau tena inaianei.E tino mohio ana ahau ka timata ratou ki te “whakawhitiwhiti” ki a koe ina tae atu te kupu ki a ratou.Ka nui tonu to utu mo te whare kia whai waahi ai ratou.Mena me "rere" koe mai i o raatau hiahia koretake, kei te mahi tika koe.Tena koa kati te whakamahi.I ora koe i a koe ano, kaua koe e pouri, e hara ranei.
DEAR ABBY: I timata ahau ki te korerorero ki tetahi taangata o mua.Tino pai ahau ki a ia.Kua tae matou ki reira i ia wa puta noa i te tau na te mea kei a maua etahi mea i roto i o maua oranga hei aro tuatahi (penei i taku mate pukupuku me te rapu tohutohu).
Heoi ano, ka whakatuma mai taku hoa pai ki te tango i ahau mai i tona oranga mena ka timata ahau i tetahi hononga ki a ia.I tetahi taha, ko tenei taangata ka rite ahau ki te ahi - he pai te ahua, o te akoranga.Engari i tetahi atu taha, kaore au e pai kia ngaro taku hoa pai.Kei te aha ahau?— He whiringa uaua i Illinois
E nga whiringa uaua!I ngaro koe i tetahi mea nui i roto i to reta.He aha to hoa tino kaha ki te whakahe ki tenei tangata?He hae ia?Ka pa atu pea tenei ki tana raru?He kino te wa whakamutunga i noho tahi koe me ia?Kia pehea te kino?Kei te ngana pea to hoa pai ki te whakaora ia koe, engari he poauau ia.korero ki a ia.
DEAR ABBY: No tata nei ka tae mai tetahi hoa ki toku whare.Ka tukuna e ahau he kawhe me tetahi keke, ka tapahia e ahau ka maka ki runga i te pereti.I kii ia kaore ia i te hiakai i taua wa, no reira ka haria e ia ki te kainga ki te kai, ka tono mai kia takaia, ka maka ranei ki roto i te ipu.I kii ahau ae, engari kare ano au i rongo mo te penei, ahakoa he maha nga wa ka haria e nga kaihaehae nga kai haurua ki te kainga mai i te wharekai.Kei te noho kee ahau i konei, kei a au ranei te tika kia ohorere penei me au inaianei?ka miharo te wahine rangatira.
Ohorere Aroha: Mena kei te "ohorere" koe ki tana mahi, me noho tairongo koe.He pono o hoa ki a koe.whakawhirinaki ki a ia.Ka pai pea ia ki te keke ka tukuna e koe, engari kei te titiro ia ki tana taumaha me te whakaaro ka tukuna e ia ki roto i te pouaka tio kia pai ai ano.Kaore au i te mohio ki nga ture o te tikanga, kia rite ki nga keke me kai i te aroaro o te wahine rangatira.
Na Abigail Van Buren a Dear Abby i tuhi, e mohiotia ana ko Jeanne Phillips, na tona whaea a Pauline Phillips i hanga.Whakapa atu ki a Abby i www.DearAbby.com, Pouaka Pouaka ranei 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
Ka whakawhiwhia pea he utu mena ka hoko koe i tetahi hua ka rehita ranei i tetahi kaute ma tetahi o nga hononga kei runga i to maatau papaanga.
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Wā tuku: Nov-30-2022